The interesting thing I have found about a great many people it would appear is that most of them haven't a clue what they are looking for. I guess it's not their fault as it were but the thing that bothers me the most is that if you are looking for something in particular you should have a clue of what it is that you want. Me I have a working knowledge of what interest me. I mean I know what it is that makes me happy. The things that make my world go better and run smoother. That would be a submissive. One of the hardest things in the world to find. It's not that there aren't submissive men out there there are. It's finding the one that makes you get that little tingle in your spine or the one that makes you itch to have some contact with.
I was lucky enough in my life to have that twice in my life. And I think I want that again the thing is one of the interesting things is that getting what you want and keeping it is somewhat of juggling act. I believe in communication. I thrive on it for the most part. Getting what I need from the individual in question is always something that makes my day go smoother. I don't look for someone that will make me happy. I look for someone that understands their place in my life and am willing to accept their role in it.
Like I said I've had it twice, granted I've had more then two submissives in my life. There are always willing males that want this or that and I have been known from time to time to give them what I want. Funny at the time they may have had a different opinion of what it was they wanted and what I wanted but in the end they saw it my way which made everyone content. So here I am subless again. However not for long.
