Lord it's been a while since I've put fingers to key board and told of what's going on in my life.  Relationships end sometimes through no fault of your on and honesty seems to have taken a back window to the world and is rarely seen.  However that is over and life is good sometimes and in others it's just more fun then I can stand.

In the past few years I've acquired a new partner in sensuality which is nice.  I got dumped by the previous one and learned that although it is a painful experience it is not one that will kill you.  You know they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, in the end it did make me wiser perhaps not saner but definitely more understanding about the things that should matter and understanding that although one can love wholeheartedly, one should always and I do mean always keep one small section of yourself free to observe the workings around you and govern yourself accordingly.

Let me tell you of the happenings as they occurred and put you up to date with my going ons.  Previous submissive had always stated an interest in finding a third to participate someone to be around while he traveled on business as well as help with the business of pampering me.  Something I am more then willing to indulge in, but I am not one to to share my property with another even if the other is my property, but I thought about it for a while and decided that he deserved the opportunity to experiment with male on male activity.  So placing adds in all the correct meet and greet areas and seeing the choices out there.  There were several that I liked seriously and a few I met to check them out.  None of this panned out either I wasn't Barbie enough for them, restrictive, not restrictive enough, to demanding, not demanding enough, wanted things I wasn't really into providing are just didn't feel right.  I am particular about whom I play with and want the best I can get.  Looks are not of importance for the simple reason I am no raving beauty either but there are somethings that I want and need in my dominance.

At the end of this search period there was one that stood out however like the previous submissive not only did he travel alot for business we could never get scheduling together so the three of us could meet and see if we were compatible.  He also told me that he really wasn't interested in male on male activity but he like the profile on the fetish and bdsm networks he had seen and wanted to get to know me a little better, and if I didn't mind he would like to keep in correspondence with me.  He did cards on my  birthday, Skype conversations
flowers from time to time long emails about the goings on his life, and the most curious thing little chores to be done that would please me.  A new experience for me I had never had a submissive that I couldn't put my hands on and direct. I was a little mean to him because well hmm not sure why but well I was.

Fast forward after 4 years of a committed SM relationship, the then current submissive  chose to seek another Dominant.  It was not a pretty parting that I lay at my feet.  When angry I tend to be reckless, dangerous, and a little crazy.  Enter the present submissive with an invitation to Norway for a meet and greet.  Normal circumstance would have been a decline of his generous offer, because after all I don't know this individual and of course I would be at his mercy while there.  Piffle, I accepted and was winging my way to Norway, during winter of all times to visit.  Geez that place is cold!  I was met at the airport with flowers and limo ride to the most wonderful hotel, placed in a suite and asked if I would enjoy dinner with him at my convenience.  I spent a week there, enjoyed every minute of it and discovered although I had been dumped, that there were still surprises around the corner that were filled with promise.

So after an appropriate time my little dragon requested that I take him in hand and make him a truly happy submissive.  It's been a fun little interlude, I have traveled a great deal meeting him really lovely places where he does business, I've met his family which was an interesting experience and I've accepted that dragons which are persistent creatures by nature can be tamed to obedience with a whip and a gentle touch.  I am happy finally.  The past is definitely in the past and the future looks extremely bright at present.

So forgive the long absences from time to time and understand that I am living life and enjoying it.